Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Review By My Global Training Instructor at Roosevelt University. Chicago.  Renie McClay.
5.0 out of 5 stars Tears of Africa, March 11, 2011
This review is from: Talakata - The Tears of Africa (Hardcover)
What a book Princess Nyirenda has written. It tells of the history and culture of Zambia, including AIDS ravaging the country. It is also her story of the ups and downs of growing up in Zambia. You can't read it and not be touched by her enthusiasm and heart for the children and people in Zambia.

Enjoy her journey and be inspired by her. Talakata - The Tears of Africa

Renie McClay
author of "The Essential Guide to Training Global Audiences: Your Planning Resource of Useful Tips and Techniques (Essential Knowledge Resource)"

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Ta Lakata review by Dr. Mwizenge S. Tembo

The world has information technology explosion; the internet, the cell phone, texting, Twitter, blogs, journals, television, and on-line newspapers. There are thousands of books being published every day.

As I was quickly browsing through the “Acknowledgements” of “Ta – Lakata – Tears of Africa”, something unusual caught my eye. A few italicized words were in a language dear to my heart: “akulu bane-yebo” – my older brother thank you; “mukanilinda yebo” – you escorted me thank you; “Bena Mphamba, munyakeso cha!” – we are Mphamba people, no one else. The italicized language was my mother tongue; theTumbuka African language from ten thousand miles away from Lundazi in the remote Eastern Province of Zambia in Southern Africa.

I was excited; I took a triple take at the cover of the book, and quickly flipped through the pages. What I saw was not only heartwarming but very stunningly familiar. I wanted to tell everyone I met, call my neighbors, my friends, all Americans, Africans, and all Zambians to read the book. This is the story of a woman who grew up about twenty-one miles from my home village. But her adult life is very different. Although we never crossed paths earlier in our lives in Zambia, we share a very common foundation just growing up with some aspects of traditional Zambia. This common foundation may be true for and shared by many Zambian and African women as well as men of her generation.

She was born Princess Zindaba Nyirenda of the royal family of Chief Mphamba of the Tumbuka people of Lundazi in Zambia. What makes her story riveting and keeps you turning pages is how she immigrated to the United States at the age of 21 in 1985. She accompanied her husband with their children but experienced unpredictable pain of separation and suffering with her whole family being ten thousand miles away back in Zambia in Africa. The most devastating is when dozens of her siblings, relatives, and former classmates died of HIV/AIDS. Zindaba recalls them as the dreaded midnight calls. She sought solace and comfort in God, prayer, and the Bible during such moments of deep grief.

“Ta –Lakata; The Tears of Africa” is the untold story of the contemporary African who has the long umbilical cord connected to Africa but lives abroad most of her adult life. How does one reconcile the tensions of the abject poverty, death, AIDS orphans, and the suffering that exists in Africa, on the one hand, and the wealth, affluence, and excesses of the Unites States, on the other hand? No wonder Zindaba feels frustrated, disappointed, depressed, and in some cases angry.

The urgent-tone narrative of the book is right from the busy multi-tasking contemporary reader who has the cell phone in hand, texts and twits people, eats a hamburger while watching TV: the book reads fast and furious. The book demands not to be put down not even for a few minutes. The title “Ta Lakata” draws on the metaphor of dry leaves falling off the tree, floating away, and falling all over the world. These are the Africans and Zambians who floated away from the homeland tree of Africa but live all over the world today including the United States.

Zindaba shares intimate details about her family growing up in the city and then a rural small sleepy town of Lundazi. Her journey from this small town, to St. Monica’s Girls Catholic School, to University of Zambia, and finally the United States is fascinating because she uses a furious and in some places provocative narrative.

Describing childhood in her family, Zindaba says: “The Nyirenda children were known in our town as “tubazungu” (the little white girls), because we spoke a lot of English and led a pro-Western lifestyle, and because in a place that traditionally expects only boys to be leaders, we, the girls, created our own entertainment for the village children.” (p.25)

This reflects the many contractions and conflicts that were inherent in many Africans of many generations perhaps since the 1880s in the classic novel “Things Fall Apart” by the renowned African writer Chinua Achebe. This is the conflict between Western Christian culture and indigenous Tumbuka or African lifestyles. For example, describing her experiences in the villageChinamwali traditional girls initiation ceremony, Zindaba says:


“Here I was, a girl from the city who danced to discotheque music like the songs of Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” and The Commodores, reciting all their lyrics by heart. And the women in the village were beating drums demonstrating and teaching me how to wiggle my waistline. “My God, this child is stiff!” they would exclaim angrily...After this whole episode, I graduated with mkanda strand of beads adorning my waistline...” (p. 103-104)


Clearly, these powerful conflicting influences are apparent in her entire book.

Zindaba links her personal family tragedy to the last five chapters in which she challenges all readers to day to find a solution to poverty, HIV/AIDS, orphaned children and death in Africa. Zindaba proposes that the heavy contamination of drinking water and pollution by the mining industry chemical waste disposal, unclean drinking water in the entire country, and malaria may be leading to poverty, disease, suffering, and the high death rates in Zambia and Africa. What is the reader going to do? Why is there so much silence among Africans and Zambians about these serious problems especially wide spread deaths from HIV/AIDS?


“This AIDS epidemic is indicative that the land and the air is so polluted, and people are not going to survive until we address the source of this calamity and dilemma in the Southern hemisphere. People are dying, suffering from every single thing and more – a product of careless mining efforts and mess that is man-made, engineered by human hands in the quest of materialism and spreading civilization – and no one is doing anything about it. People are choosing to remain silent, and this silence reigns.” (p. 169)

Is it because of deep shame? She does not spare herself blame for being silent for so long. What is very eerie is that in the very last part of the chapter of the book, she gets another mid-night phone call; he sister had just died of HIV/AIDS.

The book is about the elite Africans who were born in the 1960s at the dawn political independence from European colonialism in Africa coming to intellectual maturity. They want to tell their own story and ask the difficult problems of globalization to day. The book is passionate and refreshing as it is no longer about how an American reporter, Western technocrat, or International AID worker sees the lives of Africans. We have enough of these books. It is an African herself passionately expressing and narrating her point of view and perhaps the views and experiences of many Zambians and Africans in the Diaspora.

I highly recommend this book for all readers who want to understand what it means to be an African living abroad to day. I especially recommend it for all young and older Zambians and Africans who live in the Diaspora. This book will expose you to a little bit about our history, the role of Christianity and spirituality in our lives, some of the triumphs, joys and nostalgia we enjoy. Zindaba will also expose you to the pain, grief, heart breaks and frustrations we endure every day, and some of the hope, the possible questions and solutions to our lives. The book really expresses the strength and resilience we have always had as Zambians and Africans.

Mwizenge S. Tembo, Ph. D.

Professor of Sociology

President and Director Nkhanga Village Library Project (ZANOBA)

Bridgewater College

Bridgewater, VA 22812

www.bridgewater.edu/~mtembo

www.bridgewater.edu/zanoba

mtembo@bridgewater.edu


Princess Zindaba Nyirenda, Ta Lakata: The Tears of Africa, New York: Eloquent Books, 2009, 209 pp., 30.00 US Dollars, Hard Cover.


Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Ta Lakata: review by Tom Norman

Three streams of Africa in one African Princess:

SHAKA ZULU, Missionary Dr. Livingston, Devastation of AID/HIV & Copper Mining Pollution.

TA-LAKATA, the Tears of Africa introduces Princess Zindaba Nyirenda, who has taken responsibility to increase awareness of the ravages of AIDS in its many dimensions inside and outside of Zambia. Her moving book documents her growth in a loving family, in a prosperous Zambia and the reversals that the entire new nation suffered.

First there was the reversal in the commodity prices of copper in the late 1980s, and then the absolutely devastating effects of AIDS. This occurred in the context of “madango,” the special culturing of young girls to be submissive to authority and not to express that which will put the family in a bad light.

As the people she grew up with are “dropping like flies” (even her own father from unsanitary needles in the early years of blood donation), she brings a special urgency and insight into the reality here and abroad.

Her story in words has so many layers of interest to the Western-educated modern American that it can’t be put down. It keeps people up late into the night. Her commitment and what she most wants to talk about as Princess Zindaba, the direct line from Shaka Zula and Chief Mphamba who settled his people near Livingstone in Zambia [then Rhodesia] in the early decades of the 20th century… has to do with her special name: Zindaba.

An ‘inDaba’ is when there is a reconciliatory counsel in the cool and shade of a tree. It is where stories are shared and told leading to the meeting of hearts and minds and the reconciliation of wills.

No one had such a name before her. Her mother gave her the seemingly novel name at birth. Coming to study with her husband in the U.S. in the early 80s she has found her voice with a commitment to lead the reconciliation of tribes and peoples inside and out of Africa.

This book is written directly from the heart. One gets a full view of an open and resolved heart and each stage of life's journey. It unites the great-granddaughter from the line of Shaka Zulu to the commitment of the missionary Dr. Livingston, to the ravages and trials of the present day in Princess Zindaba's resolve that one person can make a world of difference.

It is difficult to set down the book. The chapters flow like a river through the various stages and turns of her life. You feel like you are not on the banks watching the flow of the current, but out there in the boat with her.

The book is a one of a kind. A personal documentary with residual, long lingering appeal: It rings true.

Sincerely,

Tom Norman, St. Louis, MO

March 8, 2010

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Ta Lakata: The Tears Of Africa- Reviews


Ta Lakata The Tears of Africa is the title of my book...
Why Talakata? Why an African Tumbuka word that no one knows about nor cares about?
I learned to speak English and mastered a foreign language and spoke it better than my own mother tongue. I searched their vocabulary for the title of my book, knowing I was told from a tender age that my tongue was inferior and primitive..very jiberish..and that my name was villagish and not sophisticated.

On the contrary, I found English did not have the words to depict my hearts cry...English was fliud, mine was deep and rich in meaning, the only thing missing was me sharing my language.

Ta Lakata is a word picture that gives one the impression of leaves falling off the tree. At that moment when a single leaf plucks off its mother tree, it makes the sound lakata...as the wind blows mores leaves lakata...lakataThe mood is somber..the mother tree has no desire to be left looking bare, like a "dead tree standing"..it loves its leaves and loves being clothed that way. Its saddened by its loss and its nudity. On the other hand, the leaf loves hanging on to its mother tree and enjoys swaying and dancing in the wind...it even whispers secrets and songs of love to you. The moment it is torn away, its blown away aimlessly by the wind...some leaves fall and they land on the ground, they get are trampled by cruel feet, some leaves get stuck in thorny bushes others fall in brooks and swept away by the currents to wherever the river flows, while some are picked up and displayed in museums for all to see... Africa is my mother tree and I the diaspora of Africa is the leaf that the wind has blown away to wherever I have landed, while many are my brothers and sisters lakata lakata trampled upon and buried under the mother tree...with the howling of the wind in the night, the mother tree cries Lakata lakata bana bane Afrika...Ta lakata!!!

When HIV AIDS, malaria, needless diseases of poverty afflict my own people, my own flesh and blood, indeed and the wind blows me aimlessly where it has taken me, over the northern hemisphere, where I have stumbled leaving frosty traces in these far away places, my heart cries naLakata...when my home and village in Lundazi is encroached upon by the cruel hearts of men, my heart cries lakata lakata adada, bana Mphamba ta Lakata.....muzi wane wa lakata...tabana baTumbuka ...ta Lakata....The English language cannot depict such depth of meaning in language...it does not cut it for me...I love English...but English has its limitations...for this work, the title remains Ta Lakata.

































Dr Kenneth Kaunda- The first Presdident of Zambia endorses Talakata The Tears of Africa.

When I was 20, I left Zambia for the USA and did not return home till I was 40...something:) He is the only President I ever knew...all others are new to me, so I remembered the man that gave me free education and reminded me that One Zambia is One Nation, to love all people, I went back to acknowledge him. To say Thank You. He was delighted to meet with me...and I was so flatered when he agreed to endorse me...YEA!! If I had known that that picture would be used for my book cover, I would have posed better...Oh well!

In Africa, I witnessed firsthand the hopelessness of watching a loved one slip away...being unable to stop death!
I gave the Eulogy "Goodmorning Goodbye" for my uncle General Chris Tembo, the man who was the wind beneath my wings...I was honored to address all the four Presidents of Zambia.



From right to left: The current presidents of Zambia, His excellency Rupia Banda, with our first lady, followed by the second lady and Vice President George Kunda, then the first president of Zambia Dr Kenneth Kaunda followed by the widow to our late President Mwanawasa, Mrs Maureen Mwanawasa, and then Mrs Chiluba sitting next to her husband Dr Frederick Chiluba.







This is a map of Zambia and its location on the continent of Africa. The setup for all the happenings in Ta Lakata the tears of Africa.

This book was written with one goal in mind, to call on this civilized world we live in and ask for an Indaba...what ails Africa ...what cripples Africa are the external policies that are so unfair and do not help Africa grow...Africa is trapped economically..we are a crippled continent..we need economic freedom if Africa will ever survive.... Inquiry minds seek an indaba. We need answers....
We must revist Berlin...where it all started. We must Restructure, reMap, reThink and reDo the policies that cripple our nations. Fair Economic Policies...Win- Win situations...
Copper is Zambia's asset...its the only thing we got...how cruel can men be...??

I welcome your Your thoughts....